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What To Expect At Your Engagement Party?

Modern Wedding Posted: July 23, 2021

So you said yes! But what now? Well, it’s time to celebrate the start of your wedding journey with your nearest and dearest at your engagement party. Planning an engagement party can be stressful when you don’t know what to expect, so we are here to help you out and guide you through the process!

Via Etsy

Hostess with the mostest…

Traditionally, it is the bride’s parents that host the engagement party. However, it is totally up to you on who throws the celebration! Do whatever works for you and your partner and be open and honest when it comes to discussing hosting duties. 

Via David’s Bridal

Who to invite…

Be selective with your guest list. Keep in mind that the people you invite to your engagement party will expect to be invited to the wedding. Keep it close and only invite the people you want to have at your wedding. Everyone you know will be congratulating you after you announce your engagement, but don’t feel as though that means you have to invite them.

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Money, honey…

Setting a budget early is very important regardless of if the party is a small celebration or a lavish event! Taking some time to sit down and construct a budget will take the pressure off and avoid overspending down the track. It’s also great practice for the big day! This is the first big wedding event you have, and the cost may surprise you so be prepared!

Via Fab Functions

Show your style…

The engagement party can be a great way to introduce the theme of your wedding, but you can also go for something completely different. This celebration is a great way to begin forming ideas and inspirations for a theme of the big day! Once the day is set up, see what you don’t like and use this as a trial run for the big day.

Engagement Party

Via Krista Mason Photography

Raise a glass…

It is customary for there to be speeches and a toast to congratulate the couple on their engagement. This is a great opportunity for friends and family to share some nice words about the couple. It is also a beautiful idea to thank the guests for coming and sharing the beginning of your journey. If you are wanting anyone to speak, ask them early on so they can be prepared.

Via Pacific Engagements

Wrapped in ribbon and tied in a bow…

Some guests will bring small gifts to the celebration. To avoid any unwanted gifts or awkward encounters, let your guests know whether to bring something or not. Or even register a few gifts to give guests the option! If you are totally stuck for ideas, try a wishing well so that your guests can help fund your wedding day!

Engagement Party

Via Awesome Lifestyle

The story…

Everyone will just be dying to know how it all happened! Be prepared to tell the story of the proposal all night as your guests lap up all the details. To avoid repeating yourself over and over, you could incorporate it into your speech or find a creative way to tell your story.

Engagement Party

Via Breakfast with Audrey

All dressed up…

You’ve probably seen quite a few brides wear white to their engagement party, but remember, you don’t have to! Wear whatever you like and put your own flair into your outfit. The choice is entirely up to you. Make sure to let guests know the dress code is to avoid any confusion.

Engagement Party

Via Polka Dot Bride

Let the fun begin…

Don’t forget to enjoy yourself! This is the start of an amazing journey for you and your partner. Enjoy the process and celebrate with your loved ones. 

Engagement Party

Via Pinterest

What’s next? If you are looking for some inspiration for the big day, these are some must-follow Instagram pages to help you start planning your special day.

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