So, the big day is coming up and you haven’t decided whether or not your wedding is going to be family friendly or adults only. And, what will you do if Aunt Peggy and Uncle John start screaming at each other in the middle of the dance floor? Navigating these moments can be tricky which is why we’re here to shed some light on how to deal with those awkward wedding situations.
To Kid Or Not To Kid…
One of the most frequently asked questions when it comes to planning a wedding is “Should I let people bring their children?” This situation gets particularly tricky if you have close friends or family that have kids but you want your wedding to be an adults-only event. Ultimately, the call is up to you and your partner. Don’t feel bad about hurting people’s feelings because this is your day and the only people who should have the final say when you’re making these sorts of decisions are you and your husband-to-be. The best way to deal with this is by being clear and honest with your guests. Chances are everyone will respect your decision and just enjoy the day! If you do decide to have a family-friendly wedding, find out the best way to handle children on the big day here.
Read our guide to having children at your wedding here
Anti-Party…
If you’re not a party person, just the thought of going out for a bachelorette night can be totally overwhelming and exhausting. So, what do you do if your gal pals are insisting on taking you out for a night on the town? If you’re adamant that you don’t want to celebrate your final nights of freedom the way that they want you to, you definitely don’t have to! But that doesn’t mean you can’t have another kind of bachelorette party. Instead, tell your bridal party exactly what you have in mind for a more tasteful celebration. Whether it’s a BBQ at your house, a slumber party like the old days or a girls getaway on the coast, tell them what your idea of a good time is so that you don’t get roped into anything too wild.
Ex-Guest…
Staying friends with your ex can lead to a number of awkward situations once you start seeing someone new, and even more so when you’re about to marry that someone new. So, the elephant in the room is…should you invite your ex to your wedding? This is something you’ll need to talk to your partner about to see if they’re comfortable with your ex being there. If they’re cool with it, great! No dramas! If they’re not, it’s best to respect their wishes as it is their wedding as well and you don’t want them to feel uncomfortable on the big day. Chances are your ex will understand.
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Plus One Problem…
So, you’ve sent out your wedding invitations and told your guests they’re welcome to bring a plus one only to discover that one of your friends has decided to bring someone that you can’t stand! Is it too late to tell your friend that they can’t bring them after all? Not necessarily, but you’ll need to tread very carefully. Try having a chat with your friend first and gently hint that you’d rather they bring someone else to the wedding. If their proposed plus one is someone who you don’t really like but you don’t feel like they’ll ruin the big day, you might need to let this one slide to preserve your friendship. But if it’s someone whose presence will definitely dampen the spirit of the day, it’s worth explaining this to your friend so that they can see where you’re coming from and will be more likely to bring someone else instead.
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Family Feud…
Every family has baggage, it’s just a fact of life. However, this can pose a threat to your happy day if there are people coming to the wedding that don’t get along. So, how do you stop them from having a full-on screaming match in the middle of the dance floor? Do your best to keep them apart by sitting them on seperate tables and have a chat to them prior to the wedding so that you can voice your concerns. Explain that you love them both dearly and can’t wait to have them there on your big day but be clear that you don’t want them to cause a scene as it’ll ruin the day for you, your partner and all of your guests.
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