We’ve all seen those magical wedding movie moments and hoped that our special day will be filled with the same perfection. Truth be told, not all of these moments are truthful. In fact there are several understandings and ideas about weddings which simply aren’t factual. We have found the 10 biggest wedding myths and are ready to debunk them!
Via Ivory and Rose
Me, Me, Me…
Myth: The wedding day is only about you.
Yes, it is your wedding day and yes, the day is about you. What many couples don’t realise is that many of your loved ones have also been picturing this day for a long time too. Take their opinions into consideration and remember that the day is about celebrating with those you care about, not just getting your way. The day is about love and happiness for everyone!
It’s A Tear Filled Affair…
Myth: You’ll be shedding tears all the time.
This can absolutely be the case, but isn’t a wedding day necessity. From the proposal to saying I do, many brides and grooms feel as though something is wrong with them if they aren’t tearing up during the emotional moments. This is definitely not true! Some people will wear their hearts on their sleeves, others will keep their emotions for a more private moment. Both options are absolutely ok!
Quick Pick…
Myth: You should never pick the first option you see.
They say that when you know, you know! Same goes for when you’re planning the wedding. You might get told not to pick the first venue or dress that you see. Truth is, there is nothing wrong with doing so. If you need to do some more looking around and research before making your decision, then that’s understandable. If you want to pick the first one you see, then go for it!
Keeping Up Traditions…
Myth: You have to include wedding traditions in your special day.
A veil, a garter, the bouquet toss…there are dozens of wedding traditions around. You may have gotten swept up in the ideas since you were young, but don’t feel like you have to follow tradition. Not all brides want to wear a white dress, and they don’t have to! Some don’t like the bouquet toss, so skip it. As for the veil, it’s stunning but won’t make or break your day.
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Best Time Of Your Life…
Myth: Planning a wedding isn’t always a happy experience.
Of course you want your wedding and the planning process to be filled with joy and love. Here’s the thing…it’s not always sunshine and rainbows. If you have seen a bride to be in a magazine or movie breezing through the process with not a stress or worry in sight, it is most likely a lie. There will be some stress, panic and overwhelming emotions when planning the big day, so be prepared for some cloudy moments. Don’t worry, it will all be beautiful in the end!
You Only Live Once…
Myth: You should splurge on your wedding because it only happens once.
It’s true, you only live one. Your wedding day will also be one of the biggest days of your life. Having said that, a lot of brides and grooms believes that this day will define them and their relationship. Be sure not to fall into this trap and remember what your wedding is all about….you, your partner and celebrating your love. You may find yourself saying “spend that extra money, it’s our wedding” but that can lead to a very broken budget. Be sensible with the planning and money spending!
DIY Queen…
Myth: DIY means it’ll be cheap
Bringing an element of DIY to your wedding can be truly magical, and is often done in an attempt to reduce costs and make the wedding process easier. It may seem like a great idea, but trying to be a DIY queen can actually increase your costs. Be sure to do lots of research first and don’t overcommit yourself!
The Bad Luck Curse…
Myth: If you see your partner before the ceremony, your marriage will have bad luck.
Some say the wedding day is doomed if the bride and groom see each other before walking down the aisle. We are officially debunking this one! An old myth and superstition, there is no reason to believe this. If you are wanting to keep your privacy before the big I do moment, that is absolutely ok. Otherwise, a first look can be very romantic and special!
Classic Costs…
Myth: You have to spend a certain amount of money on your wedding.
The average Australia wedding costs around $53,000, and is rising every year. This figure can make some couples believe that in order to have a fabulous wedding, they have to spend this much. This is absolutely, 100% not true. Your wedding budget should reflect what you can afford, and that’s it. Don’t feel pressured to spend more and remember that splurging doesn’t mean making the day better.
The Timing…
Myth: You have to follow a specific timeline.
Many people believe that weddings have a rather strict timeline. Whether it’s how long you should be engaged for, or how long the reception should be, there are expectations surrounding every element. The truth is, these ideas are quite outdated. Your wedding timeline should suit you as a couple and can be chopped and changed to work for you.
We are also debunking the most common wedding dress myths. Check it out here!
